“I wasn’t stuck. I was being rooted.” June is a month of transition. Spring is coming to an end, and summer is just around the corner. School semesters are wrapping up, kids are moving up a grade, and routines are shifting. It’s a season where everything feels like it’s changing — but not quite […]
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Birth Mother INTRO: In this raw and powerful poem, fellow adoptee Tammy shares a glimpse into the pain, confusion, and questions that can follow an adoptee throughout life. Her words speak what many feel but few are able to say out loud. Since it was her body It was her choice To get an abortion
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Fellow adoptee Lisa shares her story with us—a powerful journey through grief, identity, and healing as she navigates the complexities of adoption, reunion, and finding hope beyond the fog. “Grateful and Perfect: An Adult Adoptee Finding Her Way Through the Fog” The Pressure to Be Grateful and Perfect My life began with the understanding
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A New Season of Healing, Faith, and Support “I am not the same person who I was when I started this blog.” It has been a while, to say the least. Although I haven’t posted or engaged much through This Adoptee Life (at least not concistently) I have been thinking, working, and praying about
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The Weight of Confusion and the Struggle for Worth As the new year begins, many adoptees, like myself, find themselves reflecting on their journeys. For years, I carried the burden of confusion as I felt that my inner experience didn’t match my outer reality. I was striving to prove my worth to the world—and to
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What is the Primal Wound? As adoptees, many of us carry an often-unseen wound that goes far beyond our visible lives. Additionally, many of us don’t even know that we carry this wound. I was 32 years old when I first heard about the “primal wound,” as coined by Nancy Verrier. This primal wound is
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After a long hiatus, I’m excited to return to This Adoptee Life—a platform for adoptees focused on rediscovering identity, healing, and overcoming adoption-related trauma. What started as a space to share my story has become a vibrant community where adoptees come together to share theirs. As we prepare to embark on a new chapter centered
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We talk a lot about the struggles of being adoptees, the things done to us, the things we’ve dealt with and the things we have overcome. We talk about how people view adoption. We talk about the people who adopted us. We talk about the people who made our adoption happen. We talk about our
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